Along the journey of life you meet people who may have a positive impact on your well-being or a negative one. I have had some pretty negative ones, especially with men-folk, but I wanted to write this short post to say thank you to a man that has been such a positive force in my life for the good and I can’t thank him enough. I’ve been struggling with ill-health for quite a while now, and this person has been there for me to provide comfort and care. Here are the reasons why:
Thank you for calling/texting me every day to see how I am.
Thank you for remembering my birthday, and buying me a present. You never forget what I like, and treat me to something special, (my favourite books and Harry Potter merchandise; a golden snitch necklace, how cool is that!)
Thank you for taking me out on day trips, and looking after me.
Thank you for baking me my favourite cakes. You’re such a good cook!
Thank you making me laugh, which you do all the time!
Thank you for helping me when I’ve been short of cash, and helping me with the garden, and fixing my roof.
Thank you for coming with me to hospital, and holding my hand.
Thank you for taking care of my feelings, and using your calm and placid nature to ease my thoughts.
So, this is for you Shane. The only man I have ever known, that is genuine, truthful and has a heart of gold.
And here we sit watching a brass band in Loughborough in the pouring rain, but happy and laughing. (and a bit geeky!)